MOTHER OF GOOD COUNSEL
Our
Lady is invoked as the "Mother of Good Counsel", as she who
knows how to give good advice or counsel: that is, which is useful and
appropriate to the person who is asking for it.
The
world if full of "counsellors"; all the mass-media, all the
radio and television broadcasts, advertising and propaganda of every
kind, ranging from political to economic to entertainment, do nothing
but dish out advice and suggestions which are always paraded as being
entirely to the benefit of the receiver.
And in this way mankind is becoming a uniform mass, trapped in
the net of advice and recommendations that standardizes all individuals,
assembling them according to a single predetermined model.
Precisely
because it is so rich in means and methods of communication our modern
world, which is easily lets itself be conditioned, is unable to use
these "counsels" as points of departure, as seeds to germinate
and grow, but instead lets itself get boxed up, only to take the form of
the various containers. This
is the reason why nowadays it is rare to hear anyone asking for advice
openly and seriously, with the honest intention of facing up to someone,
of confronting the opinions of those others who are considered capable
of understanding and opening new paths for our journey in life.
Nowadays,
everyone thinks they are capable of "looking after"
themselves, without the help of other people, not least out of fear of
finding themselves confronted by unwelcome insights, uncomfortable
discoveries and of having to judge as bad that which one had previously
accepted as good.
Indeed,
what often occurs is that seeking advice turns into seeking approval,
feeling understood and supported in one's choices means having a greater
sense of security and being able to rest with one's conscience supported
by other's opinions. Thus
we live in a world devoid of brave enterprises, without new colours,
lacking personalities who act as a kind of yeast in the masses, making
others think.
Haplessly,
the Catholic world, too, often runs the risk of letting itself get
dragged into customs consolidated over the centuries, or into choices
imposed by someone, a so-called "charismatic" figure,
consequently becoming passive and repetitive, anonymous and thus
sterile, without any testimony to the appearance of the Spirit.
Devotion
to Our Lady can be an antidote to this disease and can lead instead to a
disposition in which we wish for "advice" in which we face up
to a word that in some way shakes us out of our laziness and opens up
new perspectives.
It
is Holy Mary herself who offers her life, her faith, her obedience to
God, her courage, as so much advice and so many suggestions for those
who really want to found their lives on the faith and become genuine
followers of Christ.
Mary
is the mother who gives good counsel when she bids us accept the
annunciation coming from God, His will expressed both in the Scared Word
and in the liturgical gesture and the progression of everyday things.
She is the mother bidding us to start moving and helping those in
need, even thought this may not be easy and there may be a thousand
excuses for avoiding it. Mary
is the mother counselling us to pay attention to what is happening and
to know how to point out what is necessary when it occurs, when there
begins to be a lack of the nectar of generosity, of service, of faith,
of mutual understanding.
She
is the mother who, under the cross, received the task of accepting
within her fertile womb the human race, redeemed by the death of her
Son: her counsel is to collaborate in a redemption which takes place in
blood and always demands a brave participation.
If
we ask Mary for her counsel we can certainly find in ourselves the
traces of our own personal. Vocation, marked by God Himself to make us
His own children, the witnesses of His love.
Mary
Mother of Good Counsel, pray for us that we may become capable of
seeking, hearing and putting into practice the advice we receive.
(by
don Giorgio, Basadonna, from “The Shrine of the Holy House,” May/Aug
1995 Issue)
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